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Looks like i'm too enjoy with my life . While some of my friends planning for their National test for next year , me ? sitting in front of the computer,online tweet and do nothing . Or maybe they're too fast on planning it ? Enjoying my teenage life , hanging out with friends , date .Whatsoever .......

Errr.. got nothing to share ..

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He made me feel special

"......My best friend texted me, he asked if I looked nice right now. I told him no, and he said to get ready so I look good, not to him, but to myself. Only text him back If I felt happy with how I looked. This confused me but I didn't ask questions. I just got ready, and finally after an hour or two, I told him I felt happy with how I looked, sort of. The door rang about 10 minutes later, and my friends told me to come with them to the park. This confused me but I didn't ask questions, I was bored anyways. We walked to the park, it wasn't that far, and they said to sit on the swing set. I didn't really like the swings at this park because it was the very place my first love broke up with me & shattered my heart. Just sitting on the swing hurt a bit, I went into silence at the memories. Suddenly, I was blindfolded. When my friends took it off, there he was. The boy who told me to get ready, I liked this boy, he was my best friend. He handed me a rose and got down on his knee. "I know this is one of your least favorite places. I also know you stopped believing in love after 2 shots to the chest. And you don't like change. But this is good change, I think. I want to change this swingset from the place where you closed your door to love to the place where it just began. I've sat by & watched you get hurt long enough. You're beautiful, smart, talented, sweet, funny. And impatient. So, I won't drag this out. I love you, & I'd like to be your boyfriend...Will you go out with me?" This boy was my 3rd love, he made me feel special. It's been 5 long years, and just today, he said those exact words. To propose....


I got it from tumblr .Nice story . Actually ,the same incident happened to me .I was hurt and my best friend came to me , he made me feel special . 


......."Can we still be friends?" Can anyone ever truly be friends again after a break up ?You give a person your everything .In turn, they learn everything about you, every insignificant fact . But suddenly they disappear . They aren't yours anymore and you are somehow supposed to talk to them . There will be awkward pauses where the "I LOVE YOU" used to go and the colorful conversations will become dull and painful . And even if years pass, you still won't talk normally because talking to them at all will remind you why you fell in love with them in the first place ....

The END

Someone , somewhere

When I bumps into your arm while walking I wants you to hold my hand

When i wants a hug i will just stand there

When u break my heart, i still feels it when u run into each other 3 years later

When i'm quiet, millions of things are running through my mind.

When i'm not arguing, i'm thinking deeply.

When i looks at you with eyes full of questions,i'm wondering how long you will be around.

When i answers, "I'm fine, " after a few seconds,i'm not at all fine.

When i stares at you, i'm wondering why you are so wonderful.

When i lays my head on your chest, i'm wishing for you to be mine forever.

When i says that i can't live without you, i have made up my mind that you are my future.

When i says, "I miss you, " no one in this world can miss you more than that

When i'm mean to you after a break up i wants you back, but i'm scared i'll get hurt and knows you're gone forever 


Someone , somewhere ..

Fun !

Yesterday i went to Sun Plaza with Grace , Malvin , Eric , and Hervin ! We watched 'The Hole' ! Great movie ! It's about what we afraid of will become real if we look in the hole ! I cant tell you more . I dont know how to tell it. haha. One word . GREAT !

Then we took picture .
a minute...............................................................................
share you the picture of us ...

deep condolence

I didn't know what month is this . I thought it's ....So many people around me had passed away . Deep Condolence O:) :'( .

the birthday month

Hello , blogger ! Exam has done ! Well , the test already return and i got great mark , not at all !

Want to know ? I got 97 for English test , 100 for civic , 90 for biology , 99 for PHYSICS , 94 for history , 99 for CHEMISTRY ,97 for Mandarin , 93 for religion and only 84 for Bahasa Indonesia ! Hell yeah ! Am waiting for Mathematics test paper . Really afraid , because the multiple choices was sooooooooooo difficult! Roarrrrr!*

Yesterday after finished exam , me Grace Kayu Malvin and Evana went to Sun . Having lots of fun there . Maybe today am going to sun again , maybe Sunday also , maybe everyday i will go to SUN PLAZA! :D

O! Yesterday i bought present for Ineke Tjiupek's birthday . Spent lots of money yesterday ...

the ribbon ! the letter also ! i made it by myself ! hahaha ! study from SOGO's SPG ! hihi.. :)

got to go now .. bye 

Freda

Hi there , JUNE !

Hi there , JUNE ! really love you , JUNE ! JUNE means HOLIDAY ! Yeay ! HOLIDAY ! Can't wait to go to Taiwan ! Yay ! Gonna have some fun there . But , gonna leave some people for 3 weeks . Don't miss me !

my #junewish Get that backpack at PointBreak !Get that GOSH shoes !Get really good mark on my test paper ! Get iPhone4 ! Get iPod 4th Gen ! Get all Apple stuff ! yayy !
wish !wish !wish !

Wish me bunch of luck for today test . PHYSICS !

EXAM

Examinations is coming . Really hope for the best for my exams
Heck !
The real test has come : BIOLOGY PHYSICS MATHEMATICS ! *WAR!
Let's ROCK 'em !

Happy Birthday to you ..

Happy Birthday to you , Malvin Ciawinson

11th May 2011

Nike ROCK !

It has been a long time since I last update my blog .Not very long actually . I got no inspiration . Hmhmm
Anyway , HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY for every MOM in this whole world . *Hugs and kisses !

Emmm , Sorry Malvin for not coming to your house . And sorry for hurting you . Never meant to do that .

Err, wanna see some cool shoes ? Huh ? i got it from tumblr , as usual . Haha

Nike ROCK !

FLOWER !

Err..got no idea for this

I MISS YOU !

How I miss my boy(ex) so much .. Miss his warm arms . Miss his lips on my cheek . Miss his voices . Miss his kind . Miss everything about him . Really want to tell him how I miss him so much . Hahhh.....

Give Thanks

Again , my class got the first rank in the competition ! Haha ! We're very afraid when the principle announced the 2nd rank was Sc2 .. We thought that the one who got the 1st position was X2 because they're really WOW but got no rank til the 2nd.. We got the 1st ! Yeah ! My class got the 1st position ! Again ! Again ! and AGAIN ! We knew we could got the 1st , and everybody does knew it ! because our arrangement was very different ! Looks like am very proud of it ! HAHA! Okay ! Shd leave now .HAHA. Shd get ready for school , i mean .. Bye, bloggie .. Have A Nice Day ..


Love,
Freda

no inspiration

I got no inspiration to write on my blog . Just going to shared some photos . (:

Me and Grace !

wanna spent more time with her or maybe kevin yu !

Anyway , it's been 3 months , and if we still together , it'll be one year this 25th April .
Like what Ne-Yo said : ".....because since there's no more you , there's no more Anniversary ."
You may forgot about me , but not our memories ! So do me !

Have a wonderful day , pple !

Love ,

Freda

Gonna miss !

Last Saturday i went to Pricicillia's birthday party ! Having lots of fun with some of them ! Not going to forget it ! Playing , laughing , enjoy my Saturday night so much !It's my first time I went out til 10p.m.! =D

Yesterday Angel celebrate her party at Sun! Lots of fun! Yeah! I enjoy it and maybe so do everyone! After done ourlunch , i accompany Christopher to buy present for Anas birthday party the following night..! hihi! We bought Patrick Tee-Shirt for her ! I choose it ! Yes! It's cool! After that,Vinson join us! He also want to buy present for Anas .We go to Tulip and buy crystal ball for her.! Then we go to Point Break ! Bought RipCurl handbag for Ivony ! Hey! It's really cool handbag for sure ! I'll upload it ! 

After hunting so many stuff for out friends who is goingto celebrate their party ,me and CT going to Anas birthday party . 

Not really enjoy her party. Not calledasa party. Dont know how to say it. Hahh...

upload some picture for you. But not Ivony RipCurl handbag .. Still secret. (:

Really dont know what to write

My blog = Trash ! 

Bye

50 Things You Need To Give Up Today

by Marc

When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.

So starting today…

1. Give up trying to be perfect. – The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things done.
2. Give up comparing yourself to others. – The only person you are competing against is yourself.
3. Give up dwelling on the past or worrying too much about the future. – Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you.  Right now is life.  Don’t miss it.
4. Give up complaining. – Do something about it.
5. Give up holding grudges. – Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
6. Give up waiting. – What we don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow.  Knowledge and intelligence are both useless without action.
7. Give up lying. – In the long-run the truth always reveals itself.  Either you own up to your actions or your actions will ultimately own you.
8. Give up trying to avoid mistakes. – The only mistake that can truly hurt you is choosing to do nothing simply because you’re too scared to make a mistake.
9. Give up saying, “I can’t.” – As Henry Ford put it, “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.”
10. Give up trying to be everything to everyone. – Making one person smile can change the world.  Maybe not the whole world, but their world.  Start small.  Start now.
11. Give up thinking you’re not ready. – Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.  Because most great opportunities in life force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally comfortable at first.
12. Give up setting small goals for yourself. – Many people set small goals because they’re afraid to fail.  Ironically, setting these small goals is what makes them fail.
13. Give up trying to do everything by yourself. – You are the sum of the people you spend the most time with.  If you work together, you will be far more capable and powerful than you ever could have been alone.
14. Give up buying things you don’t need. – Manage your money wisely so your money does not manage you.  Do not spend to impress others.  Do not live life trying to fool yourself into thinking wealth is measured in material objects.
15. Give up blaming others for your troubles. – The extent to which you can live your dream life depends on the extent to which you take responsibility for your life.  When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility – you give others power over that part of your life.
16. Give up making mountains out of molehills. – One way to check if something is worth mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time?  Three years?  Five years?  If not, then it’s not worth worrying about.
17. Give up trying to live up to the expectations of others. – Work on it for real and exceed your own expectations.  Everything else will fall into place.
18. Give up the ‘easy street’ mentality. – There is too much emphasis on finding a ‘quick fix’ in today’s society.  For example taking diet pills to lose weight instead of exercising and eating well.  No amount of magic fairy dust replaces diligent, focused, hard work.
19. Give up making promises you can’t keep. – Don’t over-promise.  Over-deliver on everything you do.
20. Give up letting your thoughts and feelings bottle up inside. – People are not mind readers.  They will never know how you feel unless you tell them.
21. Give up beating around the bush. – Say what you mean and mean what you say.  Communicate effectively.
22. Give up avoiding change. – However good or bad a situation is now, it will change.  That’s the one thing you can count on.  So embrace change and realize that change happens for a reason.  It won’t always be easy or obvious at first, but in the end it will be worth it.
23. Give up your sense of entitlement. – Nobody is entitled to anything in this world.  We are all equal.  We breathe the same air.  We get what we give.  We get what we earn.
24. Give up waiting until the last minute. – Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.
25. Give up being dramatic. – Stay out of other people’s drama and don’t needlessly create your own.
26. Give up being anti-athletic. – Get your body moving!  Simply take a long, relaxing walk or commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program 
27. Give up junk food. – You are what you eat.
28. Give up eating as a means of entertainment. – Don’t eat when you’re bored.  Eat when you’re hungry.
29. Give up foolish habits that you know are foolish. – Don’t text and drive.  Don’t drink and drive.  Don’t smoke.  Etc.
30. Give up relationships with people who bring you down. – Saying “no” to right people gives you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities.  Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven and likeminded.
31. Give up being shy. – Network with people.  Meet new people.  Ask questions.  Introduce yourself.
32. Give up worrying about what others think of you. – Unless you’re trying to make a great first impression (job interview, first date, etc.), don’t let the opinions of others stand in your way.  What they think and say about you isn’t important.  What is important is how you feel about yourself.
33. Give up trying to control everything. – Life is an unpredictable phenomenon.  No matter how good or bad things seem right now, we can never be 100% certain what will happen next.  So do you best with what’s in front of you and leave the rest to the powers above you.
34. Give up doing the same thing over and over again. – In order to grow, you must expand your horizons and break free of your comfort zone.  If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
35. Give up following the path of least resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile.  Don’t find the easy way out.  Do something extraordinary.
36. Give up persistent multi-tasking. – Do one thing at a time and do it right.
37. Give up thinking others are luckier than you. – The harder you work, the luckier you will become.
38. Give up filling every waking moment with commitments and activities. – It’s okay to be alone.  It’s okay to do nothing sometimes.  Think.  Relax. Breathe.  Be.
39. Give up making emotional decisions. – Don’t let your emotions trump your intelligence.  Slow down and think things through before you make any life-changing decisions.
40. Give up doing the wrong things just because you can get away with it. – Just because you can get away with something doesn’t mean you should do it.  Think bigger.  Keep the end in mind.  Do what you know in your heart is right.
41. Give up focusing on what you don’t want to happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen.  Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story.  If you awake every morning with the thought that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
42. Give up taking yourself so seriously. – Few others do anyway.  So enjoy yourself and have a little fun while you can.
43. Give up spending your life working in a career field you’re notpassionate about. – Life is too short for such nonsense.  The right career choice is based on one key point: Finding hard work you love doing.  So if you catch yourself working hard and loving every minute of it, don’t stop.  You’re on to something big.  Because hard work ain’t hard when you concentrate on your passions.
44. Give up thinking about the things you don’t have. – Appreciate everything you do have.  Many people aren’t so lucky.
45. Give up doubting others. – People who are determined do remarkable things.  Remember, the one who says it can’t be done should never interrupt the one doing it.
46. Give up fussing with every beauty product on the market. – Good looks attracts the eyes.  Personality attracts the heart.  Be proud to be you.  That’s when you’re beautiful.
47. Give up trying to fit in. – Don’t mold yourself into someone you’re not.  Be yourself.  Oftentimes, the only reason they want you to fit in is that once you do they can ignore you and go about their business.
48. Give up trying to be different for the sake of being different.– Nonconformity for the sake of nonconformity is conformity.  When people try too hard to be different, they usually end up being just like everyone else who is trying to be different.  Once again, be yourself.
49. Give up trying to avoid risk. – There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’  Everything you do or don’t do has an inherent risk.
50. Give up putting your own needs on the back burner. – Yes, help others, but help yourself too.  If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.

And remember, mistakes make us human, failures help us grow, hope keeps us going and love is the reason we’re alive.  So keep learning, loving and living.  Never give up on yourself.

FACT !

40 Funny Reasons Why It’s Wonderful To Be A Woman

1. When a ship sinks, women (and children) get off first.

2. A woman can hug her best friend without worrying she’ll think she’s gay.

3. Women can talk to attractive members of the opposite sex without having to picture them naked. 

4. A woman can never be blamed if it’s wet on the floor around the toilet bowl.

5. If a woman cheats on her spouse everyone will assume it’s because she was being emotionally neglected.

6. Women are capable of doing at least two different things to a passable standard at the same time.

7. Women live longer than men.

8. Women know how to cover up spots and other facial blemishes.

9. If a woman inexplicably disappears for two weeks, one of her friends will notice.

10. Women mature earlier than men (some men never mature at all).

11. There are times when chocolate is really the answer to all woman’s problems. 

12. Women don’t feel uncomfortable with gay waiters or hairdressers.

13. A woman can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.

14. Women know the truth about whether size matters…

15. A woman can take a drive without trying to beat her best time.

16. If a woman forgets to shave, no-one has to know.

17. Women are capable of going longer than five minutes without thinking about either sex or football.

18. Women never lust after a cartoon character or the central figure in a computer game.

19. Women can be groupies. Male groupies are stalkers.

20. Women can cry and get off a speeding ticket.

21. A woman can get a whole new lease on life just by changing her lipstick.

22. A woman can congratulate her team-mate without ever touching her rear.

23. Women don’t have to worry about catching anything important in their zipper.

24. If a woman says something stupid, most men will just think she’s cute.

25. Women can admit to others when they’ve made a mistake .

26. If a woman cries, she’s sensitive; if a man cries, he’s a wimp. 

27. Women know who their children are without having a DNA test.

28. It’s cool to be a daddy’s girl. It’s sad to be a mummy’s boy.

29. Women can wear platforms - which is why there is no such thing as a short woman’s complex.

30. Women can watch one TV channel at a time without getting bored.

31. Women have total control over their eyebrows.

32. Women can get drunk quicker and cheaper than men.

33. A woman’s friend won’t try to persuade her to get a tattoo while she’s drunk.

34. A woman won’t drive to Hell and back before she asks for directions.

35. Women aren’t covered with hair like shag carpeting.

36. Woman don’t feel threatened if their partner earns more than they do.

37. For women, a new season means a whole new wardrobe.

38. Women know exactly what buttons to push to get exactly what they want.

39. Women don’t think reading the manual is a betrayal of all their species stands for.

40. Women can keep pot plants alive for more than a week.

The reasons why guy BEST FRIENDS are the BEST :

1 They CAN make me LAUGH

2 They BEG when am MAD at them

3 They are SWEET when am CRY

4 They ALWAYS PROTECT me

5 They CAN fall in LOVE with me ! :D

APRIL FOOL'S

THANKS for the FOOLS !

DOMO and DANBO

Am searching for DOMO KUN and DANBO !
Such great creative stuff i ever saw !
Anyone know where to find that stuff ? Huh ? Really want it !No matter how expensive it is !



Mention me @monsterfreda if you know where to find
or e-mail : freda_jw@hotmail.com

Thanks

Teman ,Sahabat , Persahabatan ......

Teman ...
Siapa sih yang ga punya teman ? Kita (manusia) sebagai makhluk sosial , pasti selalu membutuhkan teman , benar ? Tanpa teman kita tak bisa hidup .. Itu sudah hukum alam . Jangan pernah coba menentang hukum itu .

Pasti timbul pertanyaan dalam benak kalian . 'Lalu , hubungannya dengan judul blog kamu apa ?'


Sebelumnya , apa definisi teman menurut kalian ?*silahkan dijawab dalam hati yang paling dalam*
Teman , adalah orang yang mendampingi kita , tapi ketika teman itu pergi , maka kita tidak akan merasa kehilangan .Benar ? Kalau kamu pedagang, pembelimu itu juga teman . Benar ?
Teman itu ya kayak aku dan teman sekelasku . Mereka semua temanku .
Apa definisi sahabat menurut kalian ? Orang yang selalu menjadi tong sampahmu tiap kamu ada masalah? atau  teman kamu bermain game ? Atau teman sebangkumu ? atau apa?


Yang membedakan teman dan sahabat adalah Sahabat adalah orang yang selalu ada di sisi kita , baik suka maupun duka , senang ataupun sedih , ketika seorang sahabat hendak melangkah pergi , di saat itu juga kamu merasa kehilangan . Benar ?
Sahabat juga seperti keluarga kita sendiri , yang selalu menopang kita ketika kita jatuh ,mensupport kita di kala kita terpuruk , selalu mendukung ktia dalam hal-hal positif . Benar ?
Sahabat adalah orang yang selalu to-the-point bila kita berbuat salah . Benar ?
Sahabat ya kayak seleksi 1 orang yang benar-benar baik dari antara 1 juta orang . Benar?
Intinya , sahabat adalah orang yang walaupun jauh di mata , tapi tetap dekat di hati . Selalu menjagamu . To-The-Point terhadapmu . Memberi dukungan yang membangun . Menjagamu layaknya adikmu walaupun bukan . Sabar menghadapimu *jangan mencobai kesabarannya"
*Maaf , ini semua hanya teori semata*


Mungkin  kalian akan berpikir "Zaman sekarang mana ada orang seperti itu?" atau mungkin kalian akan berpikir "Ah! Orang ini terlalu munafik!"


Ya! Saya tidak pernah menentukan syarat-syarat seorang sahabat itu seperti apa , yang jelas , sudah hukum alam kalau sahabat itu ya seperti definisi diatas . Dan jujur , saya tidak pernah setuju dengan hukum tsb. Jadi , dapat dikatakan kalau saya sedikit munafik kalau bicara soal sahabat . Menurut saya kalau sahabat itu seperti definisi diatas , maka orang seperti itu antara belum lahir atau sudah mati .


Pertanyaan saya . Pernahkah kalian benar-benar menemukan arti sahabat yang sesungguhnya ?


Jika Anda tidak setuju dengan apa yang saya tulis atau Anda ingin memberi saran atau komentar , silahkan tinggalkan pesan di chat-box saya atau tinggalkan pesan di kotak Post Comment di bawah ini .
Mohon maaf bila ada salah kata .

Sekian dan terimakasih .

Who do you think you are ?!

WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE ? HUH ?!

I have told you that my BB stuck last night and you still get angry with me ? I've explained everything to you and you still angry with me !

CHILDISH !